Bestie wanted!

Hey everyone!
I’ve been trying to find someone to connect with here. I’m looking for a bestie to chat about anything and everything! I’m in Oklahoma, but honestly, location doesn’t matter to me.
I’ve always thought it’d be cool to start a junk journal that we could send back and forth. If that sounds fun to you, shoot me a message! I’d love to hear from you! 💚

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My baby daddy wants to get back together..

For some background, my baby’s sperm donor is 34 with 5 other kids (3 baby mommas). I’m 22 and the 4th baby momma and my son is his 6th kid. He’s never been a present father in his other kids lives. He was a very toxic and controlling person in the relationship. He started telling me who I could and couldn’t talk to early into the relationship. When he got angry lots of harsh things would be said and if he was mad enough objects would be thrown or hit. I had finally built up the courage to leave before I found out I was pregnant and got back together to try and work it out for the baby. But about 4 months into the pregnancy nothing had changed and it got worse, he even told me he didn’t want his son around a woman who wanted all that freedom… I got away again by turning him into the sheriffs department, as he had an active warrant for his arrest for not paying child support for this other kids. He’s been writing me from jail wanting to fix things and prove he can be a good father. But I just don’t believe it, in 16 years he was never a father to any of his other kids. What makes mine different. Am I in the wrong for not even wanting him in my son’s life? I personally believe inconsistency and his behavior/attitude towards me is worse than him just not being an active part of our lives.

Contraceptive patch

Anyone using the patch? I've just started using it and I put it on my upper arm but realised it's not a good spot for it. Where have you put yours? I don't know what spot on the body is the best for it

Sex question

I’m 36 weeks pregnant and whenever I orgasm my head severely hurts it just recently started I don’t know if that’s something normal I never used to experience it before is it something to be concerned about?

Picnic ? 💕🫶🏾 St.Louis , Mo

Hi! My kids and I are thinking about having a picnic at the park one day next week. If you and your little ones would like to join us, I’d love to meet up!

Is it normal? Nervous about sex

Is it normal to be extremely nervous about having sex again? I’m almost 1 month pp, had a second degree tear and still feel slightly sore down there; I’m nervous about how sex will feel since I’ve had my baby. This is my first child and i do feel a bit sore. My partner is very ready and the 6 weeks isn’t even up. It’s very nice to feel wanted and I’m also annoyed and feel pressured even though he said we can take our time but sex is all he keeps bringing up. Ugh i don’t know how to feel, this is scary. I love sex and my partner ugh why do i feel this way . I hate hormones , I’m annoyed ..

Group chats

Don’t create or join a GC if you’re going to be a complete bitch. So many groups I’ve joined have been full of mean girl energy and it’s pathetic. Have your experienced this?