Chatty kids

Hi everyone. I'm turning to here because I don't know who else to ask and I'm just so ashamed I feel this way. My girl talks all day long. Non stop. I love our chats and her little voice and she amazes me with some of the things she comes out with but it does get draining at times and then it does start to agitate me and I hate that I feel this way! I could never tell her to stop talking or ignore her so I respond to every conversation but inside I get so annoyed. It mainly come on since I've had my baby who is 8 months old. I don't know if it's hormones or just being over stimulated but I don't want to feel this way. Any advice is greatly appreciated and if you have a very chatty kid let me know!

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My little boy is very similar, he starts talking from the moment he wakes up, and chats or sings until he falls asleep. Hes never not making noise. Anyone that spends a decent amount of time with him comments the same thing so I know it’s not just my maybe biased opinion.

I also love that he’s so chatty, but it does make it hard to have any other sort of conversation /ring the doctors, that sort of thing. The only time it really annoys (not sure if that’s the right word) me, is when I’m really trying to concentrate, so driving somewhere new, road works etc, or just trying to do a few things at once.

When I’m driving, I will just ask him if he can stop talking to me for 5 mins so that I can concentrate. I’ve explained to him that I sometimes need quiet when driving somewhere new.

I think maybe your hormones could have something to do with also, but I also think there’s nothing wrong with a lot of noise just getting a bit irritating sometimes, so don’t feel bad x

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