Advocating for your child - NHS

Girls how are we successful advocating for our children through the NHS? I have been round in circles for the 36 hours trying to get my daughter seen for potential thrush.
I rung 111 yesterday at 7am, was told I would receive a call back within 6hrs, they called me at 5am this morning. Between that time I chased the call twice and spoke to a pharmacist who refused to see her.
Woke up to a voicemail left at 5am, telling me to book in with my GP today, the GP had no appointments even at 8:15am and offered me one tomorrow, suggested I see a pharmacist if we wanted her checked today. I tried a different pharmacist who also refused to see her and offered me a nappy cream which we had been using all weekend. Spoke to 111 who opened a referral to allow me to book a same day GP appointment, the GP told me I couldn’t have a same day appointment as we have been offered one tomorrow and sent me a link about how to care for nappy rash 🤯 111 said all they could do at this point was to advise me to take her to A&E or to call back at 6:30pm for an out of hours GP appointment!

My 1 year old has been left for almost 2 days in discomfort, she is so itchy and no one will see us!

Instead all I can do is take her to A&E and potentially expose her to other illnesses🤯

in our community

My stepdaughter (who is old enough to know better) just said to me ‘your tummy must really hurt because it is HUGE’

She then went on to say ‘it was big when you were pregnant and it is still so big now’.

I didn’t really react much. I just said ‘it’s not kind to make comments like that about somebody’s tummy, it will upset them’.

Just to add, I have been a permanent fixture in her life since she was 18 months old and we have a loving and positive relationship and am also friends with her mum (who split from my partner amicably and also remains friends with him)
So it is not like she has been poisoned against me and feels like she needs to defend her mum or anything.

I am really hurt by this. My confidence is already so low.

My baby’s hair

My baby boy is loosing all of his back hair any tips (new mom 4months old)😫😫😫

Mental abuse for a parent

I'm in my 40s and pregnant, for the first time. At the moment, I have nowhere to go so I moved in with my Dad. He has told me to get rid of the baby, told me I'm a whore because even though I'm separated from my legal husband, I'm pregnant with someone else's kid. Constantly tells me he doesn't care if I eat or if I'm sick and to keep it to myself. Etc..... so I have been trying to not bother him and do my own thing but he still says horrible things and puts me down all the time. He says I'm like my Mom and how horrible she is. It's constant verbal abuse. I'm trying so hard to not let it stress me out but how can I fix this or not let it effect my baby or myself anymore? I'm on the waiting list for section 8 but I'm also disabled and can't work ATM. I have tried talking it out with him but the more I beg him or ask him what is the problem? I get worse back. What would you do?

Is this carrier any good?

I struggle with back pain and would prefer weight to be more distributed to my waist and hips than my back.

Confused mummy

My baby will be 18months old in a few days, and she is still nursing(breastfeeeding). My plan is to stop nursing her at 20months. My husband wants her to start nursery in a month’s time but i have mixed feelings about it as i work from home with one day away from home.
She has never had bottled milk but she uses sippy cups or a normal cup quite well to drink her water.
Please advise on how to go about weaning her and the nursery bit ( is it a good idea or it it too early for her?)
Thanks

Sleep

Hey, my baby is 4 weeks old and has passed their birth weight. I have had two different advices from health care visitor and midwife. I normally wake my baby up for feeds at night time after 3/4 hours which is the advice I was told due to my baby being small, I was also told my baby should wake me up for feeds if they are hungry and to let them sleep. I think I just have high anxiety about sids and unsure whether to let my baby sleep as when I do wake them they are super tired and only feed for around 5 minutes and go straight back to sleep and then wakes me up on their own every 2.5 hours after that. Do you let your baby sleep if they do or should I carry on with the four hours. They are soley breastfed