Crying baby

Does anyone else’s baby seem to only cry when they’re awake? Ours is almost 4.5 weeks and he sleeps, wakes up crying, feeds, then on and off cries until he goes back to sleep. Only relaxed when he has his dummy. It’s hard when he always seems upset. I’m worried I’ve created a dummy monster 😂 we only introduced it last week to try and help with the crying as it was constant and involved us rocking him upright trying to soothe him for hours, which isn’t sustainable

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Mine is the same 4 weeks old but will only take dummy briefly and will cry constantly unless held and sleep I arms it's so hard as can go on for hours and the minute you transfer to Moses she's awake again but hoping itl get better soon

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It isn’t the night is it lol I never experienced witching hour with my first god like clockwork its every night lol really stressful

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Mine cries all the time when awake but won’t take a dummy 😭 I wish he would, but he cries pretty much all the time he’s awake 😂

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