Would you say something?

When I went to nursery to collect my son this evening I could hear him screaming. They said he was just having his nappy changed and it was a bit sore. The worker that was changing his nappy (who didn't know I was there) shouted "SARAH COME HERE!!". The worker I was standing with (Sarah) looked awkward and went into the next room. She came back saying that it had been sticky poo, diarrhoea and is very sore so they've had to put a lot of Sudocrem on. All this time my son is still screaming. She said that it is probably so sore because he did a lot of soiled nappies today.
When I changed his nappy after getting home, it's really red all over, including on his genitals and under his bum. When I looked at the app, he's logged as happy one soiled nappy this morning then just two other wet ones, the last one being around 2pm and I collected him around 5pm.
I'm worried that they left him in a soiled nappy for ages which is why it was 'sticky' and he's now so sore 🥺 I really don't have any proof though so I feel like it would probably just be my word against theirs.

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I would ask them about it. I know at my nursery not every nappy was recorded, especially once she moved from the baby room to the toddler room.

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I’d ask for clarification on whether it was a lot of soiled nappies like they said or just one like the app said.
Sounds like they didn’t log the dirty nappy that they changed while you were there so is it possible they forgot to log others?

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Every diaper at my center has to be recorded and every 2 hours

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Don’t let anything you’re not comfortable with go. This is your child, if you let things go, then they will know which parent they can play with. I would not be afraid to challenge. Your baby should get nothing but the best at home and nursery.

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