Maid of Honour drama!!
So in October, before I found out I was pregnant I asked my then closest friend to be my maid of honour at my wedding(which was going to be in March). I then found out I was pregnant a couple of weeks later and ever since then she literally started AIRING me and downright stopped talking to me basically. She has a box full of a bunch of art materials of mine that I kept asking to get and she would say that she was busy and for me to get it another time. There’s a lot more about how she treated me when I was pregnant but it’s just too much to write up.
So I obviously no longer want this person at my wedding let alone being my maid of honour and have been wanting to ask to get the things I gave her when I asked her to be my maid of honour when I do get my box of things as it would be so much more hassle to try replace every single item that I handpicked and bought for my maid of honour and bridesmaids but have not been sure what to say and been so scared of how she will react or what she will say to me or even how to approach it.
Advice please!!!
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My relationship with my MOH exploded 6 months before I got married, that was 8 years ago, she still came to the wedding and I haven’t spoken to her in about 6 years. If you are sure this is what you want then I would suggest doing it soon and making it very clear where you stand and why. Had I the time again, I would have not had her even come to the wedding with her gf because it was approx £150 per head and that’s a lot of money to waste on someone who said “thanks” when I wished her happy birthday for the next two years.
Telling someone you no longer want them to be your MOH is the nuclear option. Be prepared for fall out.
I have no advice on how to get your stuff back though…
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