Big Baby?

Hey Mamas!!! I had a 33week growth scan yesterday and baby is measuring a little bigger roughly 5pounds 11ounces… just interested what everyone else’s babies are measuring/measured at this stage?

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Intimacy??

We needed to have an emergency c section about 5 months ago and I still am not fully back to being super intimate with my partner. We’ve made love maybe ten times since the baby was born but like half of them the baby woke up and we didn’t finish.. I’m feeling so off with it all and exhausted and cannot lead there. He should but we’ve been struggling aligning on timing as we’re both working from
Home with baby and just sooo much going on it gets deprioritized.
Anyhow, I’m curious how others have been with it. I think also the residual trauma of it all has been something I’m still processing. The changed body. The scar… idk jsut curious if others are also dealing

Big baby

Hey girls, I’m 35 weeks on Friday and had an extra scan yesterday to check placenta placement.. the placement was fine but the baby measured at 98th centile for weight, head and tummy. They always have measured big but yesterday they seemed more concerned. They’re testing me for the third time for diabetes (the first 2 were negative). I said I was worried something was wrong and she replied “we are too, that’s why we’re doing the glucose check again and having an extra scan”.. she also said try not to panic and that none of this is my fault.. it made me think that I should be panicking?! Has anyone else had this?

Cheering myself up tips? Need to vent - it’s long, sorry.

I’ve only just entered the third trimester and all of a sudden in just a few days I’ve gone from being so happy and calm and now I am fed. TF. Up.

My ass is enormous, feels as big as my bump, my maternity clothes don’t fit over my butt anymore. My arms and breasts are like pumped full of air. I’m tired all the time and hungry but constantly full. None of the maternity clothes fit and it’s still so humid and hot WHY DID I GET PREGNANT DURING SUMMER
I tried to be so chill during the heatwave and didn’t complain but now the summer is continuing I am just done with it. I don’t want to wear anything tight or summery, I want baggy trackies in winter and pyjamas and big jumpers 😭🤣

Baby is always sitting so so low down as well - please just get off my bladder so I can sit down for 5 mins without going to the toilet or go for a walk without feeling so heavy down there. Thirsty all the time but know I’m going to have to pee shortly after any drink.

I know baby is going to basically double in weight over the next 3 months and I just feel so grumpy all the time, I feel so bad for my husband because I’m just like a grouchy housemate at this point.

Just getting out to walk the dogs feels hard to enjoy because I hate the way I look and clothes I have and plodding around the park like a fat little hippo sucks, bending to pick up sticks and dog poo sucks.

Is there a dark cave I can go an sleep off the rest of this trimester please? I’ve just come back from a spa day and it’s like barely made a dent, also seeing younger non pregnant women in their bikinis just made me feel so bad about my lumpy cellulite huge pregnant bum.

Not sure how to pick myself up so that I can have a pleasant conversation with another human in the near future - any tips?

Lack of motivation or just fatigue?

Hello 👋 ☺️ FTM 22+5 here! Anyone feeling like they can't do anything other than the bare minimum at this stage? I feel like once I get ready for the day and have breakfast, I need to lay down again!

I'm trying to be kind to myself, but I feel so useless and finding it hard to stick to any kind of schedule or get much done 🥲

Anyone feel the same or have any tips? ❤️

Growth scan

Anyone have a growth scan at 36 weeks? They said today she’s weighing at 6 pound 2 which is brilliant but according to google the avaerage is 5 pound 8 at this stage so feel like I’m going to have a big bambino🫠😊 anyone else has a scan around this time? What weight was you told ? Xx

C-section with a toddler!

I’m interested to hear people’s experiences! We are hoping for a 3’ish year age gap and my daughter still breastfeeds and co sleeps (won’t be changing either until she wants to)… my little girl always wants me to hold her, cuddle and obviously she’s on me a lot with feeding.

I’ll be having a planned Caesarian next birth due to a traumatic natural birth before with significant tearing so trying to think ahead and feeling anxious about it!