So me and my partner have an on going issue.
I have got up every night and every morning with our daughter ( 2half )
He doesn't get up till 9am He gets ready and goes to work around 9:30 - 9:45 so He spends about 15 minutes with us each morning. This is my problem π He turns round to me every time I bring this up and says I'm working on the road so I need my sleep unless you want me to have an accident. I'm angry all the time about his respons as I feel it's just an excuse for not getting up and spending time with us. He doesn't get back till around 7:30 or later each night so he doesn't get to see our daughter much as she is in bed by 8 - 8:30. So He will have about half hour if that. He then decides to come to bed about 1 or later so we don't see echother much but apparently that's my fault as I go up to bed as my daughter is normally up in the night and full awake by 6am.
Am i in the wrong for addressing He doesn't spend enough time with his daughter and he should get-up earlier to spend this time with her before work π€·ββοΈ( He only has one day a week off )
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If he is getting back around 7.30pm ish and isnt going to bed till like 1am and then needs his sleep in the morning then, to me, that is a choice. Go to bed earlier and see your family in the morning. I know it can be hard, my partner doesnt get home till about 9pm or later and leaves for work around 8am, 7 days a week. We purposely worked our child's routine so we are up at 6am ish and they get a couple hours in the morning together. He gets in and has dinner and half hour relax time to let his food settle before bed so that he can be present in the mornings