Am I in the wrong ?

So me and my partner have an on going issue.
I have got up every night and every morning with our daughter ( 2half )
He doesn't get up till 9am He gets ready and goes to work around 9:30 - 9:45 so He spends about 15 minutes with us each morning. This is my problem πŸ™„ He turns round to me every time I bring this up and says I'm working on the road so I need my sleep unless you want me to have an accident. I'm angry all the time about his respons as I feel it's just an excuse for not getting up and spending time with us. He doesn't get back till around 7:30 or later each night so he doesn't get to see our daughter much as she is in bed by 8 - 8:30. So He will have about half hour if that. He then decides to come to bed about 1 or later so we don't see echother much but apparently that's my fault as I go up to bed as my daughter is normally up in the night and full awake by 6am.

Am i in the wrong for addressing He doesn't spend enough time with his daughter and he should get-up earlier to spend this time with her before work πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ( He only has one day a week off )

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.
Add a comment
Avatar

If he is getting back around 7.30pm ish and isnt going to bed till like 1am and then needs his sleep in the morning then, to me, that is a choice. Go to bed earlier and see your family in the morning. I know it can be hard, my partner doesnt get home till about 9pm or later and leaves for work around 8am, 7 days a week. We purposely worked our child's routine so we are up at 6am ish and they get a couple hours in the morning together. He gets in and has dinner and half hour relax time to let his food settle before bed so that he can be present in the mornings

Read more on Peanut

Trending

in our community

Free Diapers

Anyone in need of diapers or know a good place to donate them. I have some from size 1-3. I live in Sugarhill.

Avatar

3

13

Bottle refusal

My baby was primarily chest fed but got 1-2 bottles a day. At 12 weeks she started refusing bottles, when we try she just plays with it/gags/or screams. We’ve tried having different people feed her, different bottles, different flows of nipples, different temperature of the milk, fresh milk versus refrigerated, scalding the milk, formula, movement while feeding, and different positions and nothing works. I have to go back to work in 4 weeks. My husband will take over for 6 weeks and then she’ll go to daycare. I do not have the option of extending leave and can’t just have my husband bring her to work to feed. I’m already anxious about leaving her but this is making it worse. Has anyone been able to resolve this issue? Are they just going to have a hard couple days and then she’ll get with it?

Avatar

5

Mom Guilt

My daughter just had her 2 month check up, and she’s measuring at the 32 percentile. She was born 7lbs 9oz but she’s only 10lbs now. I know our doctor said it s fine, but I can’t help but feel she should be chunkier? A part of me feels like it’s my fault for giving up on breastfeeding so quickly (due to a mastectomy I knew my circumstances were special and yes I was lactating just probably less than others). She was induced so suddenly due to my preeclampsia getting really bad, so I didn’t have a breast pump until she was already over a week old. I just feel so guilty :( she’s on formula and she eats ok, but I just can’t shake the feeling that I could’ve done better. Just needed to rant and maybe someone relates to how I feel

Avatar

4

Sleep

Can anyone recommend something my baby will actually sleep in?
My baby won’t sleep in a next to me, not a Moses basket, not a deluxe pod, she won’t sleep in any of them.
Does anyone have any recommendations on a crib or anything that babies can safely sleep in for long periods of time (overnight) that worked like a dream for there baby who’s fussy?

Pls help a girl out immediately 🀣πŸ₯²

Avatar

7

No period

Still no period 12 weeks after c section and I’m not breastfeeding I’m bottle feeding I rang gp they said give it longer but just little worried I should have had one

Avatar

2

6

Question

Baby girl is 9 days old and l is breastfed and needs waking every 3 hours. It can take up to 20 minutes to wake her is this normal? Any tips on how to wake them up to feed???

Avatar

5

Read more on Peanut