9 month old not eating

Hello!

Our little one was doing so well with food, loved his purees in all flavours and did bits of self feeding. All of a sudden he’s not taking any meals, won’t even let you go near him with a spoon and chucks any food we give him as finger food to the floor without even trying near his mouth.

We know if we gave him a sweet puree he’d most likely take it. But don’t want him to get used to this and only eat fruit flavours? What do we do? If he doesn’t have what we offer in terms of savoury just leave him or do we give in and give him what he likes so at least tries to have some solids?

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Would you be hurt by this reaction?

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