For your husband to go hang out at a bar with his best friend who is a known avid cheater because he’s feeling down?
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How do I say this right. 😅
PERSONALLY; I trust my husband & like he has some SCUMBAG friends. But he’s not?
Like he’s a mechanic and I’ll say most of mechanics/car scene guys are shit heads. I worked with them, for years 😅
if said friend was the kind to sit there and spout about other women, try to take him to a strip club or something that made HIM uncomfortable toward us a couple separately, he would decline on his own. And he knows what I’m… okay with?
But if his friend just wanted someone to sit at the bar with, shoot the shit. Meh. Who cares.

Is the friend who’s an avid cheater gonna try to fuck your husband?
I’m confused if I’m honest.
If you trust your partner & know they are not participating in cheating on you, I don’t see a particular problem.

No, I wouldn’t because I have seen what happens with people are around bad influencers. If it’s just them and not more friends as well. I personally wouldn’t want to chance it. Alcohol and peer pressure is never a good mix.

I heard someone say they would never go into business with someone who cheats on their partner. I don't know why anyone would want to be friends with someone like that unless it's not against their own morals. Typically men who hang out with their cheater friends are also trying to cheat but that's just in my observations of people throughout my life.

I trust my husband