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Do you really want to make friends or is it that you want followers , numbers , or and ego boost

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i truly want to make friends but at the same time i enjoy being alone lol

I do. But I have to pay for a subscription 😂

Friends

I want to make friends. Everyone has either moved or we stopped talking as much since I became a mom. I have no one to really talk to so I’d like to find a friend group again in the same chapter of life as me

Friends! I see so many post and no comment back. I truly just want someone to talk with and chill

Friends but I haven't paid on this app amd don't want to

I truly want friends. But I am rather awkward, sometimes I struggle with maintaining a conversation with people I don't know. It takes me a long time to get comfortable and open up. Add that awkward shyness to being a single working mom of 3, always exhausted and very forgetful. I forget to reply or am slow to reply, not because I don't want to talk or i dont care, I just feel overwhelmed, tired, or simply forget to hit send.

Definitely want to make friends, I don't care about social media. It just that people don't seem to be on this app much or just busy moms handling life which I understand, so connecting outside the app may be easier. I think the most beneficial would be to exchange numbers if you are serious but at the same time you have to be at a comfort level to get to that point.

I want a friend but I see a lot of people wanting numbers 👀

I’m honestly looking for a genuine connection with someone. Not something you have to fake bc of their interests or piers around them. I’m looking for a ride or die ya know?

I want friends! But seems like Oklahoma has a limited selection to be honest. I tend to connect with girlies from other states and I don’t desire a long distance friendship.
My best friends already live in different states from me so I’m looking for someone to hang out with locally.

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Feeling lonely

Does anyone get sad at how little support friends and family have given since you have had your baby? Is this normal for everyone? My baby is 16 months old and some friends haven’t even met them. My side of the family live in a different country and my other half doesn’t have much family close by but they never check in or see how we are coping. Lately I am feeling a lot of rage on how hard things are and how no one ever even thinks to call by or see how we’re doing. I don’t expect free childcare or a house cleaner just a bit of acknowledgement or moral support 😂 since becoming a mum there are lots of friends I’ve barely spoken since to so maybe I was driving the friendships as they seem to be fizzling. Am I being selfish by feeling this way? I just feel so alone in all this and it’s exhausting and suffocating. Before I had kids I don’t think I was the best friend to my friends who were mums but I feel like I wasn’t this crap! I remembered birthdays and messaged regularly to check in and saw them often enough. Is this just a universal experience or am I alone in this

Law School

I had the craziest dream last night that I was dating Halland and that he enrolled me in law school making the impossible, possible. In the dream, I was crying with happiness at being set free from my own academic stalemate. I feel like I have a lot of civil rights issues in my life and I think I would be a better mom if I could defend my legal rights and the rights of my child. I mean, if I’m at home with a baby might as well be studying right ? My husband is a PhD and I only have my BFA and nursing school.

I ended up applying to the LLB program today starting in September. Is this a good career move? I’m due in February 🌈🎉🤰.

Baby no.2

No job, already have a toddler who is 2. What do I do! Applying for jobs like mad, looking like mad. We’re getting a council house soon but so stressed. Do I work or do I be a stay at home mam?

Any advice?

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