9 weeks postpartum, my marriage is really struggling. Has anyone gone through it in the beginning? This is my first baby. Anyone available to chat with experience and/or helpful advice? Thanks mommas!
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Message me!!! I went thru the same situation and we actually split up for a week and rekindled our relationship! I definitely have some advice!!

Yessss - this is very common I’m realizing. We rocked it the first few months and then got hit hard at around 4-5 months. Everyday is different! Some days I can’t stand the way he breathes, other days he’s the rockstar of our world. Know it’s common, it ebbs and flows, take space when you need. Sending strength! Take care of yourself so you can best take care of babe

It was tough, turns out he was really feeling left out

Hey girl! Message me if you would like! I would love to give you some encouraging words!

My baby born 4/3/26 before I had her he didn’t want her after wards he try to act like he did but he actions said differently. We been married 5 years. I decided to divorce him he doesn’t want her and he knew when we married kids was something I wanted now why he lied and act like he did to idk but I choose my baby and my self. I’m wishing you the very best love I pray your situation anti nun like mine.

It's a big adjustment. Definitely struggling too. This is probably the most common time for people to split. Postpartum rage does not help either, believe me.