I need all your reassuring words and advice .
My baby is a Velcro baby (12 months). If I leave the room she cries . She only contact naps or out on walks in the pram. She breast feeds to sleep. Like everything that is a complete change for the nursery environment.
She had her settling in day today. And it went tits up. As expected she was crying through it. My anxiety and guilt is over the roof here .
Any advice ? Do you think it will help if dad does the dropping off in the beginning ? Is there any thing I can do to help make the transition easier ? Anything ? š„¹ā¤ļøā¤ļø
// desperate mum
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Mum to a velcro baby here.
Just finished week one in nursery. Cried 4/5 days at drop off and at pickup.
Today was day 5 and she cried less. She actually slept at the nursery (without rocking, without white noise, no contact, just bum patting)
I understand the mum's guilt, I felt it every day this week. š
My only advice, try and make the drop off fun. Sing a song, do a happy dance with your baby, anything fun to put a smile on both of your faces (even though you are crying on the inside)
I'm hopeful it will get easier as the weeks go by

also mum to a velcro baby! mine did a few settling in days ā on the first one he cried so much, i had to pick him up after about an hour
heās been at nursery for a few months now and couldnāt be happier there. we make a big deal out of getting ready and going in the morning, and make sure to make it tons of fun
mine also only contact naps or feeds to sleep at home, but at nursery heāll go over to his bed on his own and put himself to sleep. no idea how they get him to do that!!

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