My partner's sister has just announced she's getting married this October!
Do we go or not?
Long story short, we don't talk and do not get along and haven't for the past 2 years nowm She has invited me, my partner and our children.
She texted out of the blue after barely speaking to us
She didn't go to our Daughter's her god-daughters first Birthday, she didn't even send a card or anything.
She didn't go to our second Daughter's Christening, same again didn't even send a card. - she is coming over this month for our second Daughter's Birthday.
We live in Northern Ireland
She lives in England
She's getting married in Scotland during the week.
It would cost a lot of money for us to go, I would have to pay for half of the cost with my partner.
My partner is blank straight refusing to go on his own, even though I have told him to go and I'm ok with that but he won't.
So the only way for him to be there is if I go with our children and pay half.
I really don't know what to do. I don't want to be a walk-over and go to someone's wedding who doesn't even like me, doesn't talk to and deleted me off social media and bad- mouthed me to her whole family.
But at the same time I want to be the bigger person
