Baby hates car seat (maxi cosi pebble)

Hi everyone!

Our 4.5-week-old absolutely hates her car seat. The longest she'll tolerate it is around 10 minutes before she's sobbing her heart out and gets so hot, clammy and really worked up.

Yesterday I took her (and her car seat – a Maxi-Cosi Pebble 360) into Mamas & Papas to have the fit checked. They said her head appears to be a little too small for the newborn inserts, so it falls back slightly, which surprised me! She's almost 8lb and was born full term.

She also has some jaw tension, which we're seeing an osteopath for, so I'm wondering if that could be contributing too.

I'm now considering buying a different car seat, but I'm not sure if that's the answer. She doesn't seem to like lying flat, and the Pebble 360 has three recline positions, so we already have it in the most upright position that's appropriate.

Has anyone experienced anything similar or found that changing car seats made a difference? Or would you stick with the one we have? I'll add a photo of how she sits in it in the comments.

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