bd is driving me crazy!

so for the last week he’s been so nice and we’ve been messaging and sorting things out between us ( not getting back together but more about the visits and problems during them)
I’ve now found out the reason he’s been so nice and not arguing is because he’s decided to start the court process. when i’ve asked him what he wants to change he said “he wants to go out more with baby”? i said yeah you could’ve asked me and we could’ve made the plans?
instead he starts a court process…

in these messages he’s claiming i’ve met someone else and cancel on him meet this person with the baby.
I’m not seeing anybody or even talking to anybody as i always have baby so i don’t have time. even if i was it’s none of his business and i’ve NEVER cancelled to meet somebody else and definitely wouldn’t bring my baby.
im so confused where he’s gotten this from.

in our community

My partner has left me.

I am heartbroken. My partner or 8 years has left me and I am currently on maternity leave with no income; with a 7 month old and a 2 year old.

My house is mortgaged, and I can’t afford the bills even when I do return to work. My heart is breaking for my kids.

Has anyone been through this? Do you have any advice?

Looking for friends

Hi, my name is kadence and im 15, 2 months back I had to put my baby up for adoption bc my parents would not let me keep her so im not %100 sure if im aloud on this group but im looking for friends that have been in my position or just teen mom friends. Im located in Radford Va

Friends

Hi everyone I am looking for friends as I don’t really have anyone to talk to during the day except the kiddos. Most of the time I don’t even talk an adult all week besides my husband. I text back pretty fast, I’m a therapist is training so I’m always up to hear you vent, and I crochet so if we become really good friends I could make you something. Feel free to message if you’re interested 🫶

Mom’s

Is there any anyone who lives in Dallas that has girls or a little boys and just wants to chill and need FaceTime mom friends? I have three little girls four years old two years old and nine months old I just want a mom that I could chill with and or be on FaceTime with.

I gotta let it out

I can't do this anymore. I'm so exhausted, I feel like I've wasted my life. I feel like I'm failing my daughter and I want to change things. As I'm getting older, I'm realizing how behind I am. It's a terrible feeling. I don't really have any friends, haven't been in a relationship in forever and I feel guilty that my daughter is an only child. I'm just so emotional and disappointed in myself and where I am.

Who here is employed and still dealing with extreme fatigue and sickness? How are we handling work?

I had to leave early *again* because I felt so crappy and it makes me feel so guilty. I’ve only worked 2 full 8 hr shifts in the last 2 weeks. Every other day I’ve had to leave early.
I’m a department of one. It’s literally just me providing support to a team of production workers in a manufacturing environment. When I’m not there, no one else is doing my job and things do get held up. I’m so concerned that my job is going to be in jeopardy because of how much time I’ve needed lately. I have FMLA so I know I’m “protected”, but I’m afraid I’m ruining my reputation and limiting my future in this industry that I’ve spent the last decade developing 🥲