IM GOING CRAZY

for a month now my 8 month old baby is literally crying from morning till night it is so annoying, nothing is wrong with her! she cant get down for naps because she has so much energy meaning shes falling asleep at 10/11pm and up at 7/8am I cant do this anymore i've tried rocking i've tried putting her to sleep on me first i've tried everything. I cant do this anymore, i have the worst headache.
i've tried the cry it out method but she literally will not stop crying she literally cries for 10-15 minutes and on going if i dont go to her. I cant keep doing this, she was never like this.

i have adhd and its so overstimulating and overwhelming my body is in constant fight mode because of it i just feel like i cant keep doing this, i love my baby but i'm hating myself and my life. i cant keep up with the house or even clean it up for her because all she does is cry and my husbands at work basically all day and helps when he can.

does it get better or just worse from here.

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Is she pooping good ? Maybe it's a bowel thing ? Or she could be teething and maybe letting her gnaw on a cool wet hand cloth ? I also just wore my baby all the time and rolled around the house on a medicine ball when he was younger ,, I also used to buy teething wafers so he could put something in his mouth that was edible and I wouldnt worry he would be choking on

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