hey y’all ☺️

So I feel like I did a post some time ago but that was SOME time ago—my name is Lei Ani, but I go by Leia. I have a 8, soon to be 9, months old son named Jahlil. I’m currently in school for my bachelor’s in Health Sciences and I work full time as a pharmacy technician!

My hobbies are searching for a hobby 😅 but along with that I enjoy playing games and doodling (and online shopping 🫩)

I’m really low maintenance as a friend, but I love to have deep, long conversations whenever time allows! But if it doesn’t, it’s okay as long as we’re okay 🙂‍↕️ I really suck at responding on here so feel free to ask me for my socials or number if the conversation is going well!

in our community

🚨 EMERGENCY ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨

I need a friend. 😭🤣
I'm talking about random "guess what happened," unnecessary updates, dumb memes, and texting just because.

I'm in Texas, but distance is just a number. If you've been wanting a friend who'll match your energy, this is me shooting my shot. 🤠

Who wants to be friends💗

Am 20 years old I have a beautiful baby girl delilah who is 4 months old I have an amazing partner but sometimes it gets lonely as hes always doing his own thing sometimes so it would be really nice to talk to someone

New Bestie, HEYYY ❤️

Okayyy so where are the women who actually want a REAL friendship? 😂🤎

I’m a wife, mama, pretty chill, a little quiet at first, love God, good conversations, laughing, coffee dates, walks and just doing life together.

I’m not looking for a huge friend group just genuine women who are intentional, drama-free and actually want to hang out eventually 😂

If that sounds like you… heyyyy bestie 👀🤎

I regret being a mom

I’m in the absolute 2u2 trenches (20 month old and 2.5 month old). I am in the early stages of leaving my partner of almost 4 years. And I absolutely regret being a mom. And that’s really hard for me to admit because I have wanted to be one for so long. I hate admitting it out loud. But I absolutely regret it. I wish I could just give the girls full custody to their dad because I feel so tapped out. But there’s no way he’d be able to with his work schedule and be able to provide them a happy healthy childhood. But I just wanted to say out loud I regret being a mom. I hope I’m wrong later in life but right now I am in the trenches and I’m struggling and I have no one to talk to or ask for genuine help. My friends don’t have kids or are longing to have one. My OB doesn’t care I feel this way and is not doing any bloodwork to check my levels. He did this last time too when I was severely depressed with my first born. no psychiatrist who can give me mental pills to help this take my government insurance and I can’t pay out-of-pocket because I can hardly afford anything to even keep my girls alive and happy. I’m in therapy once a week because that’s all my schedule allows. I just feel so lost and alone. But at least I have my girl gang which is a toddler who speaks the language of nothing and nonsense so there’s a language barrier between us. And an infant who just cries almost constantly, and doesn’t even want to be around me.

Looking for a bestfriend

Heyyyy looking for a bestie someone who wants to talk and text on the phone. Near or far!

What gift do you get/make for a woman that has everything?

It's impossible!
For context it's my MIL, and she is quite well off, can buy whatever she needs as she needs it. It's so hard to buy anything for her!