not interested in sex

my husband has been wanting to have sex with me every day and I’ve been doing it but not enjoying it like I used to…
sometimes I even get the ick and I feel bad but like I’m not into it right now
I’m 5 months pp and I don’t feel my best and I’m a stay at home mom that breastfeeds all day and all night and I’m just tired and not able to get “in the mood”

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This is totally normal! Mine wanted sex a month after I gave birth and while I did 'put out' I was just mentally pissed off that this was even a thing. I'm touched out and don't even think about sex half the time and don't even read my smut books because I'm just not ready or in the right mindset. I'd tell him he got hands that can take care of him while he waits!

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