I miss sex

I’m almost 3 weeks postpartum and I miss sex so much. Idk if it’s the hormones or what. Me and my man would go weeks without sex when I was pregnant and then at the end we started having sex a bunch to try to get the baby out but it wasn’t really enjoyable. Now I just want sex so bad but I know I can’t because of the risk of infection and everything is still going to be loose but I wish I could because I actually want sex now and it won’t be uncomfortable because of the baby.
Just a rant really and seeing if anyone else can relate.

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I felt this after I gave birth. Just really wanted to have sex with my partner. I think it’s just about how you feel in yourself and your healing process. We did end up having sex again around 3 weeks postpartum but just took it slow and worked with how it felt for me. It worked for us and for me so yeah

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