Battle ax

My husband and I got into a argument yesterday. We rekindled and talked. We were talking about his life and when he met me. Then I say "you met your angel" he says "more like my battle ax" and laughed.. I'm hurt to be honest am I overreacting reacting?

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Do you pick up your child from the nursery much earlier before the session ends?

My son’s nursery baby room session finishes at 6pm. Pick up normally starts from 5pm but I notice all the babies have gone home before 6pm. If I arrive at 5:45pm he would be the last one remaining in the room.

There was one time I got a call from the nursery saying my son was unhappy and he seemed to be very itchy from his eczema. I went to picked him up earlier and I notice another 2 babies were also being picked up at 4:40 pm.

Do parents (working or SAHP) generally prefer to pick up their children from nurseries early?

Grandparents not following our no screen time rule.

Our little boy is looked after by my in laws once a week whilst I’m at work. I was initially going to put him in nursery for my 2 working days but my in laws insisted that they have him for 1 day. He is their only grandchild and wanted to spend extra time with him.

I am very grateful that they have him and they are excellent grandparents to our little boy. However we do not allow our 2.5 year old to watch any TV at home. My in laws have started to show our son TV shows whilst at theirs (Peppa pig, Paw Patrol and Bluey etc) I have asked them to stop as it’s causing issues at home. Our little boy is getting upset when I tell him that he cannot watch these shows at home. This is leading to meltdowns and tantrums. Prior to this, we had none of these behaviours.

I have tried speaking with them multiple times but they keep letting him watch these shows at theirs. They have said that he gets upset when he cannot watch them.

Should I put my little boy in nursery for 2 days a week and not with his grandparents? How can I make them respect my parenting choices?

For context, my husband had also been involved in all of these conversations.

Oh what a night

So, an evening that was meant to be a celebration of passing my driving test in Thursday and being able to relax with no children as turned into a shit show.
I had a gut feeling and have done for awhile now and checked my partners phone (massive wrong thing for me to do I know this) how ever I saw on his lock screen the suggestion Apple do and the top one was “send message to “name” on twitter so I looked and my god, he has been hounding women in his inbox for their OF and messages to and from women to pay for images etc bare in mind we’re in the process of buying a house so that transaction will be know to our mortgage advisors 🤦🏽‍♀️ also I have no personal issues with people on OF, it’s a boundary to me in a relationship.
So seeing this I screen shot a conversation so it’s on his camera roll when he opens it next haha..
he came into the room and mentioned anal, it’s something I told him can happen give or take when it’s right. I’ve also had bowl issues as a child as I’ve explained to him on days when I’ve teared or it’s softer than usually and then that night or the night after it’s brought up but today when I told him I’ve never told previous partners how much it’s hurts me his first response was “I won’t bother asking no more”
Not I understand so we’ll wait or something softer.
I’m probably over reacting but I needed a rant before I fall asleep while he’s downstairs 😂

What would you do?

I live in a small town and one of the shops has recently put a golliwog doll in their shop window. I went in and explained to the woman who owns the shop how offensive they are. She basically laughed, called me a snowflake and told me to get out.
What would you do?

Working in childcare

Calling all people who do/have work in childcare, how do you go about getting started in the career? I have no prior qualifications or experience relating to childcare apart from I have 2 of my own kids haha but it is my dream job honestly. I would start an apprenticeship but the issue I have is that my kids are 2.5 years and 6 months and neither are in nursery currently 😅. I’m due to go back to my current job in September but I’m hoping to get into the childcare sector by then or at least by the end of the year, can I start at a nursery part time without an apprenticeship or qualifications? I’m so eager to get started but idk where to start 🤣

Are my feelings valid?

I am 25 days postpartum with my first. My husbands job normally has him traveling but I thought when we knew we were due he would try to not go out of town in the first month. Tomorrow he leaves for a week to another state. Am I over reacting by being upset and overwhelmed?