2 months

Hi moms!
My baby is approaching his 2 month mark. He loves to contact nap during the day and whenever he is placed on his bassinet or anywhere else that are not arms he wakes up and cries. Does anyone have advice on how I can slowly lean him off the arms or does it get better as he get older and won’t need the contact nap nomore? 🥲🥲😭

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My baby does this he’s only 6 weeks and started doing this apparently every baby goes through this phase in life

Try going down with him putting bum first then slowly with rest of the body before leaving him in the bassinet, once you have got him down place your hand on his chest and slowly move yourself up and away. Hopefully this helps

My girl is still like this at nearly 9 months 😭 ive tried my hardest since she was young to have an easy going baby when it comes to sleep but she hasnt had any of it 😂

She is totally different to my first born, its wild

It’s definitely just a phase. Keep trying to put him down in his bassinet/crib, usually your best bet is the first nap of the day. But honestly it just takes time for him to get used to being out of your arms during naps. I think it was around 12 weeks that my little man finally started getting used to it. Before that I would always try to put him down but usually ended up with him in my arms because he would wake up and I wanted to save the nap. He just turned 4 months and now he takes all his naps in his crib and I miss the snuggles! He’ll still nap on me but I try to put him down 99% of the time so he stays good with it and I can get some things done around the house. For now, get some good earbuds and load up your favorite streaming services on your phone/ipad!

You could try adding a white noise machine, red light, preheating the sheets, and having something that smells like you close by.

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