Pocket money?

No arrangement here, I just pay for what I need/want. If it’s a higher amount ($60 or higher) I’ll ask him but that’s just to make sure he’s okay with me spending it on the current paycheck.

I only ask him bc im oblivious these days and dont want to pver draw us. But there are certain things for me we budget for. My coffee, my hairbevery 8 weeks, and weekly/bi weekly thrift or antique trip

I am a SAHM as well, but do the budgeting/pay the bills for our family. I would suggest maybe just working out something in your budget so you have an “allowance”. You won’t have to ask every time you need something small, so when you want to make a bigger purchase it won’t feel like you’re constantly asking because you’ll just have your budgeted amount to spend freely.

My names on the acc but I’m having no income atm it’s all his as a sahm. So he has a card I have a card both our names on it. I tap what I need on a daily basis every week is basically the same amount, I also have $120/m come out auto monthly for my 2 dance lessons a week (Tuesdays and Fridays) and I get a big shein order of around $100 monthly. I choose to cut, dye my own hair, do my own nails and lashes but that’s coz it’s convenient I can do it a couple hrs before a Friday night out instead of trying to schedule last minute and being told she can’t get me in till next week 😵‍💫 So for convenience I do all my physical maintenance stuff myself I just buy the supplies (that’s what the Shien order is for 😅) to do that. Ask for his card xx