Bbydaddy

I really hate my bbyfather . Hes been getting on my last nerves since labor . I dont want to be with him but he refuses to break up or leave . I want quits

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Give yourself some grace and try to be patient with each other. ❤️ The postpartum period is HARD, and your hormones, exhaustion, lack of sleep, and the huge adjustment of becoming parents can have you feeling completely different about your partner. I wouldn’t make any major decisions while you’re still in the thick of it unless there’s abuse or you genuinely feel unsafe. Pray about it, give yourself some time, and communicate with him when you’re both calm. You may find that you don’t actually hate him …you hate this season you’re going through together. 🙏🏽❤️

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