Lonely, Lonely, Lonely.

I am a mom of 3.
5, 10, and 23 years old.
I quit my teaching job of 15 years to open a cozy lil coffee shop- taking longer than expected. So, I am home 24 7- and, my husband works 18 hour days. I have some good friends, but they all work, and busy on weekends. My heart just needs a human to connect with- through the week especially.😔 Personality-wise part holy, part hood. I'm a conservative and big into health & fitness. I love makeup and I'm definitely a lil extra. However, my biggest pet peeve is people who act fake. 😄
Anyway, just bored and sad lately. 😔

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WFH Administrative Assistant Job Opportunity

-HS Diploma or higher.
-20 hrs a week.
-Pay $24.16-$27.16 hourly to start.
-Eligible for competitive benefits package and generous paid leave, including Vacation, Holiday and Health Leave.
-Typical hours 9a-2p PST Mon-Thurs.
-Familiarity with Microsoft Office.
-Privacy and friendliness working with all races, LGBTQI+, and other diverse backgrounds a MUST.

Support role for the Executive Director of a nonprofit that works to help improve the health, education, and wellbeing of young people and their families.
Mostly scheduling, organizing, e-filing documents, and recording minutes from board meetings. This is an Executive Administrative Assistant Position so a background with Virtual Assistant or clerical work is helpful.

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Birthday presents

My friends little girl is turning 1 tomorrow and I still need to buy her a gift before the party on Saturday. Im lost on what to get her because it feels like she’s already got so much stuff.
Does anyone have any suggestions on things that aren’t necessarily toys? I was considering books but I think she’s got billions of them already too!
She likes to suck on a blanket rather than a dummy or anything so I tried to find one of those teddy comforters that she likes to use but giant size, like a regular blanket but with the bear head part. I thought that would have been an unbelievable present 😂
Alas… they don’t exist 😩😂

Cuteness aggressive or just weird?

Yk the urge to eat ur baby bc they're so cute and u love them so much? Well I feel like that too but sometimes i feel like I wanna put him back inside me so I can feel those little kicks again and move around. Just that closeness and bond.

Basically missing being pregnant with him. But i think some ppl might say thats a weird thing to say especially with boy moms being sometimes classified as more than moms iygm.

I just love my baby bc hes so nummy nummy and I miss him so bad when he was tiny and could fit inside my womb and move around. I miss that closeness to my child and although id love another one to feel that again timing isnt right due sorting through relationship problems.

Birthday vs Christmas presents

How are you separating what’s birthday & what’s Christmas presents? Abit early but I have family asking already

What should I do.

Hi everyone. I moved to Colorado from Florida 2 year ago with my boyfriend of 6 years. Me and him were struggling within our relationship and ended up splitting up… he told me if I gave him another Chance things would be different. We got back together and I got pregnant, our relationship began to struggle again. He’s always struggled holding a job and smokes a lot of weed. I stopped smoking when I got pregnant and haven’t smoked since. He works full time and we have a 4 month old that is exclusively breast fed. I don’t work, I was a cam girl before getting pregnant and that did really well for me financially but I stopped when I got pregnant and I’m the primary care taker of our baby and do all the feeding and all the diapers pretty much. He occasionally will do one here and there. I’m having trouble keeping up with chores because my baby wants to be picked up so often. He gets overwhelmed with his job and crashes out about the bills and having to work and how hard it is commuting without a car daily, it’s pretty stressful but hearing him yell and complain about the same things daily when I’m also exhausted and overwhelmed is horrible. We sold my car to get here and have been without one which has been so hard. I contemplate camming to try to make money and help financially but my body has changed so much I feel horribly insecure about it but he tells me that I need to pitch in financially. I beg him for us to move back down to Florida where our family is and he refuses. He says he’s not going back there and idk what to do we have no friends and family here and I feel completely alone. :(

Feeling so alone

Hi! Just want to vent a little. I am an immigrant in the US (CA) and it is just me and my husband. I have a really hard time making friends and I also do a lonely job so it is already hard to meet people in person. I have a couple of acquaintances that I chat with but nothing more, they live all far away or have different lives. My best friend of 20 years (who lives on the other side of the world now but we always made do) abandoned me when I gave birth and texted me 4 times in 18 months. I think it is because she is childless and sterilized by choice and thinks I judge her? I tried to say there is no way I judge her at all, but we just grew apart. I am also having a rough patch with my husband started when we had the baby because he struggles to reconcile life with a toddler with what he want out of life and he struggles to accept that this is a season of life where we need to limit ourselves sometimes. He is the only person I talk to, if we don’t count the cashiers at stores. I have virtually no friends. Nobody I can open up to. My mom and sister are on the other side of the world. I talk to them but I limit myself because there is no point in worrying them when there is nothing they can do. I also have another baby on the way. I SO long for someone who loves me to sit by me on the sofa and just tell me about their day, drink a tea or just tell me that it is true, what I am doing it’s hard, and that I am not alone. Someone to pop by just to see me. I want my mom and hugs. Alas, I am alone. And I am so sad. I feel I will always be alone. It has been 8 years now.