Satan-in-law!

Ohh where to begin! My sister in law has caused a lot of drama during my pregnancy resulting in high blood pressure, panic attacks, and high stress. I’m trying my best to focus on my pregnancy and me and my husband are working hard to ensure our marriage stays strong but she seems to love putting a wedge between us! Baby is due in 3 months, she hasn’t contacted me in 2 months. Is it cruel to not allow her to meet my baby when he is here? She has treated me like crap and turned her whole family against me and also tried to do the same to my own family. She is a liar, narcissistic, manipulative etc. and I don’t want this energy around my child. Any advice??

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I wouldn’t allow contact. Or rather I personally wouldn’t want any contact. Once baby is big enough to be with just their dad for a visit and he wants to stay in touch I wouldn’t want to get in the way of that but I personally wouldn’t want to have that drama around me :)

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No it isn't. If she can't respect you and treat you properly then she doesn't deserve to meet your baby.

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