Hello Moms

I’m currently looking for a reliable babysitter I’m a mom that works two jobs to make ends meet and just need a little help this school year anyone have any recommendations and no I don’t have any family members or friends to help.

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Nursery Query

Hey!
I’m just wondering about sending my boys to a nursery. They’re 6 months old twin boys and I’m so uncertain on what to do. Like, do I even go back to work or do I stay home and just be skint or do I go back to work. If I do send them nursery what’s the process for this? What’s the monthly cost going to look like for both to be in nursery 4/5 days a week. My partner is a high school teacher but in a different area so sometimes the school holidays don’t sync up. I do have my mother in law who will have them every now and again, same with my mum. My mind is spinning hahaha

Am I Rude because I don’t feel like it 😂

Can anyone tell me why people feel so entitled to not RSVP and still think they can show up let alone with their friends or their children’s friends who you don’t know . My family is crying and throwing a sissy fit because I sent this message but quite frankly I don’t see anything rude about it since I’m spending MY money to throw an event

Am I wrong for wanting to leave?

My fiance has depression along with other conditions and it’s just a lot at the moment. This year has been a lot for us emotionally and financially but Its like he’s always getting on at me, looking for arguments, going through my phone, monitoring where I am etc. I can’t even have a social life! It was my close friends 25th at the beginning of the month and I missed it even though it was from 7 till late all because he hid the keys and said no. He doesn’t even trust me around gay men like I am trying but it’s becoming draining! I don’t want to be with him anymore but I feel bad for feeling this way 😔 when I spoke to my work friends they spoke as if this is what relationships are not always as fun especially when you’re older and that I shouldn’t nitpick so much because he’s going through a rough patch. Problem is I feel like I always get the bad end of the stick every single depressive episode!

I have been at my parents the last week almost and I feel even MORE stressed because he’s always texting me accusing me of cheating or doing something behind his back. We havent been engaged long now but gosh I want to cancel it already

dinner time

Helloo, What time do your babies have dinner? I honestly don't know what time to give them dinner.😭😭

Toilet regression

My son who is 3 and half did brilliantly with the potty training back in may, or just before, and now suddenly he’s not using the toilet at home at all unless it’s a poo, he will use it Olof we go out or if we go to another persons house but at home he just refuses and I’m getting to the end of my rope with it!!! Any one help with what to do and yes there’s been a major disruption in life me and my partner have split but it started before then, obviously the split hasn’t helped the situation

Hot wheels

My kid has just started really loving hot wheels. Are there certain tracks that your kids love? Should I just get a bunch of straights? Is there tracks I should avoid? Any nice tracks that are fairly small that work with most cars? (Some of the tracks I have with loops don’t work with all cars)