My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 5. He is my middle school sweetheart and the only boy I’ve ever dated. We had our son back in April. Since we’ve been married we’ve always had a good sex life, but since I got pregnant, it has changed a lot. I had a horrendous pregnancy so that was why we couldn’t do it much then. Now we’re just so busy taking care of the baby we don’t have time to spend together anymore. We haven’t had sex in almost 3 weeks. We can hardly even have a meal together at dinner because of the baby screaming. I can’t say enough good things about my husband as a husband and father. He is definitely not an issue here. He is absolutely amazing. I just miss us. I miss him even though we’re in the same house every day. Can someone please tell me it’s not always going to be this way and it gets better?
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I’m in the same boat… hoping it gets better

I am sorry you're going through this. I am feeling the same way and have found it hard to be intimate as I have struggled with vaginal pain. I miss being us too and I grieve that part of our relationship. I hope it gets better and believe it will or it will like everything else just be different. Sending you hugs though as I know how hard it is!!

You need to schedule a date night and weekend stay for you two ir ask him to. Find someone you trust to keep baby.