Hayden Panettiere😥

This is just super sad but I think it's important to talk about. Hayden passed yesterday & her daughter is 8 years old. Hayden struggled with substances (I believe before she had her daughter, no offense. I've been a big fan since I was 6 years old lol)

What makes me really sad is she didn't have a normal upbringing with her mom. She was forced to do commercials at 10 months old. I can only imagine how her mother tended to her. She was thrown into the screens of acting before being consistently put in gigs for commercials, & once she got a big one that was it for her mom. She forced her to act relentlessly. Whether they got the job or not.

3 months ago she wrote her autobiography & idk honestly if she's truly honest in it. Idk if she knew that how she was raised with such little endearment, love, time to be such a small human.. idk if she ever connected it. It honestly breaks my heart.

So I'm wondering, do you think she passed from addi***** or do you think it was a long time trickle effect of how she was raised? She gave her daughter up to the father early on due to her issues she battled with. I'm not here to state she's a monster, I am just so sad she wasn't whole when she passed. Truly.

I personally believe that we are a product of who raised us, & that is what ultimately lead to her d**** 😢😭 I bet she wasn't loved or consoled even for bumping her head as a toddler that we would even stop to hold ours for a moment, I bet her mom let her cry it out for hours at a time & I bet she hurt her/ disciplined/ scared her into making her an actress. It's so sad. But I think what hurts most is idk if she ever knew that/ wanted to cross that bridge either. & maybe that's why she chased another reality? It makes absolute sense why she didn't fight custody and gave it right away.. so sad.

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Just to be clear, have you read somewhere from her that her upbringing didn’t have love from her mother? How do you know that her childhood wasn’t filled with love? Was this what she had written herself in her memoir?

It’s always so sad when someone who was a highlight of your childhood dies, especially under these circumstances! 😔

I posted abt this today too; may she rest in peace. I think many things can be true at the same time so she could allegedly suffered from “addiction & then also a trickle effect of how she raised” maybe that was what possibly led her into addiction in the 1st place. It’s alll connected, life is complicated and trauma especially from childhood can cause addiction. I personally think no parent “sane” parent would sign their kid up for Hollywood; these parents are usually red flags 🚩 & not safe. Being in that level on lime light, exposure, pressure and not having privacy can take a toll on a regular functioning adult so I can’t imagine what does for a child with a developing brain. 🧠
It takes a very grounded person to survive Hollywood. I’m so sad, cuz I had watched her since I was kid & we are both in that same age group. Bt also I’m sure it just the mom’s fault. Her dad also had do with up bringing if we are to blame her death on that

Also I heard that her parents lost their son; so they lost both their kids in 3 years. Bt I think, her brothers death was non drug related. Bt these parents must be grieving extra hard. And my heart goes out to them. I can’t even begin to imagine what they must be going through. And I’m so glad they asked for privacy. Bt I’m sure people will be doing their digging since she was a public figure bt her family is grieving 2 losses only years apart 😭

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