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So my fiancée and I have been together 6 years. We both had very high drives.. well in year three hers started swaying (Less intimacy) I have asked multiple times about it (I’m huge on communication she is not) but anywho she passed it off as she was tired or back hurt etc… whatever well I got pregnant last year and our daughter is almost 1 now. In the past year and half we have only had any physical intimacy 4/5 times. I’m at a breaking point. I try everything and I’m getting the same story like I did from year three 😭🙄 my love language is physical touch and this sucks ass… I just needed to vent because your girlie is dying over here.

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Youd be surprised how many marriages end over this, definitely show her this post or write your feelings out and give it to her. (As someone who sucks at communication writing out things helps me communicate better)

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My husband is so lame when it comes to initiating sex with me
I’ve been home with the baby all night and I’m exhausted as baby has been up at every hour with no sleep
He just came home from work
only gave me a peck kiss and while walking away to the point where I had to say huh like three times had the nerve to say I want to freak you but this was already after he’d been here for like 20 mins haven’t touched me in any way not even a warm embrace but I’m supposed to be horny enough to have sex with you absolutely not !!
This is not the first time and when I said something about it before he was like idk what to do or what you’ll be comfortable with since you just had the baby and I told him what to do at that point but he’s lazy and I’m tired of lazy love

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