Partner wants me to get a termination and has made promises of things being better and planning a wedding, going on holiday and days out but I worry that this is being said just to get me to go through with it.
I do not want to terminate. Don’t get me wrong, I love him and I respect his decision but I can’t go through with another one and having empty promises once again
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Why do you only get that if you terminate your pregnancy ? 🧐
Was this not on the table prior to becoming pregnant ?

Do not terminate if you don’t want to! You don’t want to live with that regret and if he really loves you he will respect/understand your decision. Do not listen to all the promises because if he loves you he will do that whether there is baby or not!

I’m going to be really blunt here, he’s not going to change.
The saying if they wanted to they would really is true…
And if he wanted to have done those things he would have by now.
So, ultimately do what’s best for you, if you don’t want to do something don’t let someone force you into it, there are plenty of places to look for help if you need it, what’s hard now won’t always be hard.