UTI or bv/thrush every time after sex
Does anyone else get this? It’s putting a strain on myself and my partners relationship as I feel scared to have sex with him
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You should ask your doctor about a “nest infection”. All this means is you guys keep passing it back and forth, and will continue until you both are treated for whatever it is. This happened to me and my husband when we first started dating. It wasn’t anything serious, just thrush, but until we both were on antibiotics and fully recovered, it was just a viscous cycle.
In my experience UTI's tend to be every time you pee, not just after sex, so I'd hazard a guess that its either BV or thrush. You can get tests from a pharmacy to see which one it is, but it's important both of you get treated otherwise you may just keep passing it back and forth
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