Been having a hard time finding friends or people who have things in common or share a good vibe with a lot of small talk that goes no where
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I’m in NH, but hi!

Hi I live in California and I’m 29. I’m not goth but I’m down to chat and be friends ♥️

Hey I’m a lot older than u but if u want a friend I’m here. We seem to have a lot in common. I’m 37 and got 3 boys. 19, 16, & 17months. Im looking for someone to connect with to. I think we would get qpong great for eachother. Do u play pokemon go?

I’m alllllll the way in Louisiana (home state is Illinois) but I’m open to being friends. I’ve got you covered with memes/reels (my FAVORITE way of communication is sending a bunch of reels). I also play games on ps5 as well as understand from a certain point your BPD. Because I have it too. I know we may not react the exact same or have the same triggers. But I’ll have your back when you need someone to listen to you. And I can be a voice of reason if you need advice during tough times.
Honestly just looking for a best friend 🫶 I’ve been having such a hard time making friends lately, and I just want someone I can talk to about literally anything, send random updates to, laugh with, and actually keep in touch with. Even if we’re long distance, I don’t care 😭 No forcing it, just a genuine friendship that’s consistent.

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My husband and I were about to have X. He had been scrolling through Xual content on Twitter, which made him horny, and then he wanted to penetrate me straight away.
There was hardly any cuddling, touching or foreplay, so I wasn’t aroused or wet enough. I asked him to wait so I could get some lubricant because I didn’t want penetration to hurt.
He immediately became angry, got dressed without saying much and told me, “Not even a hoe has ever done that.” As he was putting on his clothes, he also said, “Don’t worry, I have plenty of ways to sort myself out.” I’m not sure whether he meant watching sexual content, finding someone else or simply taking care of himself, but it felt like a threat intended to make me feel guilty.
This isn’t the first time this has happened. He often wants to penetrate me without cuddling, touching me or taking time to get me aroused first. When I try to have a conversation about it, he turns things around and blames me.
I give him most of what he wants sexually, but I don’t feel like I receive much pleasure, affection or effort in return. I understand that intimacy shouldn’t be transactional, but I also want my comfort and pleasure to matter. Sometimes I find myself craving affection and intimacy that I’m not receiving, even though my husband is right beside me.
I wasn’t rejecting him. I simply wasn’t physically ready for penetration and wanted to use lube so it would be comfortable.
AITAH for asking him to wait while I got lubricant? What do you think he meant by saying that he has other ways to sort himself out, and was his reaction reasonable?
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I am so horny when my bf is at work. We have sex almost every night, but while he's at work, I'm just tingly almost the whole day 🙃
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Been having a hard time finding friends or people who have things in common or share a good vibe with a lot of small talk that goes no where

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I see a lot of moms getting gift boxes from formula brands, where are you guys signing for them? 😭 where is my box ? 😭

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My daughter is 10 months old and I haven’t found a job yet. I’m with her all day and her dad works 6 days a week and is out the house 13/14 hours and I don’t live near any family. My friends are all in their early 20s and have their own thing going on and don’t quite understand the mum life so it’s hard to meet any friends more than once a week. Idk I’m just feeling so isolated and it’s summer holidays so no baby groups on and I’m just bored of being at home all day. I go on dog walks every day but being this alone is starting to really ramp up my anxiety. Anyone else feel the same? Think I just want to know I’m not alone in this.
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