Anyone going through PPD? I feel sad and lonely some days. I love my baby so much and would do anything and everything to make sure she’s safe and happy but I can’t explain this damn emptiness I feel. I’m 9 months PP and still trying to wrap my head around this I guess? Idk does anyone have any advice 😢😢
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Sweetie I’m in the same situation you are. Text me whenever you want.

Have you talked with your Dr or a psychiatrist about this? I was diagnosed with PPD and PPA and as put on Sertraline. I’m not saying you should go on an antidepressant, only you and your Dr can make that decision. Just to be open to talking to someone and having medication be a possibility. ♥️

I also was diagnosed with ppd and started speaking with a therapist, but I was also experiencing the depression prior to birth, but now it’s stronger. Speaking with my therapist has helped a lot and I’ve only done a couple sessions. It feels good to be heard and less lonely. Feel free to reach out <3

PPD is definitely a thing a lot of us moms go through. Talk with your doctor about meds if you're open to that and start therapy. It helped me tremendously.

Oh honey I’m sorry… I still struggle with depression and my son is two and a half. It’s pretty debilitating. I refused meds until recently and then I finally caved in. I feel much better now that I agreed to take them. I still have rough days. Don’t give up girl… this too shall pass. You’re never alone even though you feel sooooo lonely. ((Hugs))

I wasn’t prepared for that feeling at all but I was prescribed some medication and I took it and it really did help and I was eventually able to stop the medicine! Therapy or a good friend to lean on helps too!

If you need to talk? Please feel free to message me 🖤 I was diagnosed with postpartum anxiety and panic disorder (PPAPD) at five months postpartum. My son is 16 months old now. I’m doing a lot better one medication and with therapy, but it’s been a long road, and I still second guess myself sometimes. I know that “empty” feeling all too well. I have always loved my son more than life itself but there were times when I would look at him and just be so filled with doubt and fear that those emotions took over and I felt nothing else. I was always so scared it would get in the way of me bonding with him, or that the emerging mental illness was going to cause me to stop caring about my baby all together. This lead to the worst cyclical thoughts and OCD tendencies I have ever experienced. It’s such a lonely existence. No one understands, and it’s so isolating.
Honestly just looking for a best friend 🫶 I’ve been having such a hard time making friends lately, and I just want someone I can talk to about literally anything, send random updates to, laugh with, and actually keep in touch with. Even if we’re long distance, I don’t care 😭 No forcing it, just a genuine friendship that’s consistent.

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My husband and I were about to have X. He had been scrolling through Xual content on Twitter, which made him horny, and then he wanted to penetrate me straight away.
There was hardly any cuddling, touching or foreplay, so I wasn’t aroused or wet enough. I asked him to wait so I could get some lubricant because I didn’t want penetration to hurt.
He immediately became angry, got dressed without saying much and told me, “Not even a hoe has ever done that.” As he was putting on his clothes, he also said, “Don’t worry, I have plenty of ways to sort myself out.” I’m not sure whether he meant watching sexual content, finding someone else or simply taking care of himself, but it felt like a threat intended to make me feel guilty.
This isn’t the first time this has happened. He often wants to penetrate me without cuddling, touching me or taking time to get me aroused first. When I try to have a conversation about it, he turns things around and blames me.
I give him most of what he wants sexually, but I don’t feel like I receive much pleasure, affection or effort in return. I understand that intimacy shouldn’t be transactional, but I also want my comfort and pleasure to matter. Sometimes I find myself craving affection and intimacy that I’m not receiving, even though my husband is right beside me.
I wasn’t rejecting him. I simply wasn’t physically ready for penetration and wanted to use lube so it would be comfortable.
AITAH for asking him to wait while I got lubricant? What do you think he meant by saying that he has other ways to sort himself out, and was his reaction reasonable?
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I am so horny when my bf is at work. We have sex almost every night, but while he's at work, I'm just tingly almost the whole day 🙃
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Been having a hard time finding friends or people who have things in common or share a good vibe with a lot of small talk that goes no where

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I see a lot of moms getting gift boxes from formula brands, where are you guys signing for them? 😭 where is my box ? 😭

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My daughter is 10 months old and I haven’t found a job yet. I’m with her all day and her dad works 6 days a week and is out the house 13/14 hours and I don’t live near any family. My friends are all in their early 20s and have their own thing going on and don’t quite understand the mum life so it’s hard to meet any friends more than once a week. Idk I’m just feeling so isolated and it’s summer holidays so no baby groups on and I’m just bored of being at home all day. I go on dog walks every day but being this alone is starting to really ramp up my anxiety. Anyone else feel the same? Think I just want to know I’m not alone in this.
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