Making friends?!!?

Hoping to make friends? Pls? 🤣 who knew being an adult, this would be so difficult to do🙈 im a very chatty person, happy to be someones token witchy friend! 🤣 i dont mind if we are texting all the time & sharing tiktoks or even people to meet up with - someone please tell me im not alone in this struggle?😩😅
Uk based but happy to chat to anyone

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Do they not use their brains 😵‍💫

My baby is 4 months and 19 days old, my boyfriend and I haven't had sex in 5 months and a week, until now. He was in another room I went in to get some lovins (hug and a couple kisses) and he sat up and kissed me in a way we haven't kissed in months, and got me with a surprise moment, love that. Needed it no doubt, didn't get off, but that's okay. I just missed the moment itself. Moment done he said "I owe you two next time cause I know you didn't get there" I turned around and said "Did you?!" He said yeah I said IN THERE? and he said yes. I went noooo, no no. You need to get a plan B tomorrow and he shrugged it off like naaaah it's fine. I said NO it's not fine 😅 it's significantly easier for me to get pregnant again and I haven't started the birth control my OB prescribed me (I picked it up earlier it's a 3 months supply and I lost it they won't refill it till the 3 months is up) but he sensed how serious I was because I wasnt budging on it and told him "No seriously. You need to go out tomorrow and get one. I'll send you the money idc but you need to get one" he said he would, he apologized said he's running on one brain cell and got "lost in it" and didn't think about it because it's been a while. Like... What. I've talked to him numerous times about how it'd be easier to get pregnant again so soon, I've talked to him about other peoples videos where they told their spouse they did it anyways and the women fell pregnant. (I feel I need to add he almost seemed a little sad when I said "I don't want to stress this but seriously" and he finished my sentence and said "Ill go get one tomorrow, I promise")
Am I wrong for being worried and stressed out over this?
Should I just be happy that we finally had a moment of release and connection again after months of nothing.

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Lone parenting

Hi everyone so this time sadly I’m completely alone in pregnancy
Dad doesn’t want to know so it’s just me
My other children (different dads) as with their dad as I cannot look after them as I’m bedbound
I’m currently going through a breakup with a narcissist and it’s just hell on earth right now

That with the sickness on top I just don’t know what to do :(
I have nobody to help and I mean nobody
I have anti sickness meds from the hospital but still can’t look after myself
I’m 9+5 and this is so miserable and lonely :(

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Im really starting to hate this app im so lonely I try to keep friendships or try to keep the conversation going but it always seems like people just want to play with my feelings. All I want is a friendship for me and my son. It’s been super lonely just being me and him all the time I would love to have friends who we can maybe meet up at the park with our kids and just go and have fun with the kids and stuff like that. I honestly don’t know what I do for people to ghost me all the time😢

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Looking for someone to hang with

Hey I’m tried of people saying they are gonna hang out and never do so I’m looking for someone who will actually come over and do nothing with me or just watch the kids run around and play I’m 420 friendly and just want some genuine friends

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Friendships.

Anyone else really struggle in today’s world to fit in?. I’ve had a massive realisation lately that the friends I thought I had actually were no friends at all and now I’m a little lost. I’d love to find some true/real people in today’s society but struggle due to being hurt so many times. Anyone else feel the same?.

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I’m hoping to find someone who can be a quiet, safe space for me to talk when I need it.
Things at home can feel very different from how they look on the outside, and it gets lonely carrying that by myself. With the usual family expectations — both here and back home (India) — it’s hard to open up without worrying about how it might reflect on anyone.

I don’t want to share these feelings/drama with people who know us, so I’m looking for someone neutral who can simply listen kindly and privately.
— just a gentle space to let things out when they build up.

If you’re someone who can hold that kind of space, I’d really appreciate it.

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