Do they not use their brains 😵💫
My baby is 4 months and 19 days old, my boyfriend and I haven't had sex in 5 months and a week, until now. He was in another room I went in to get some lovins (hug and a couple kisses) and he sat up and kissed me in a way we haven't kissed in months, and got me with a surprise moment, love that. Needed it no doubt, didn't get off, but that's okay. I just missed the moment itself. Moment done he said "I owe you two next time cause I know you didn't get there" I turned around and said "Did you?!" He said yeah I said IN THERE? and he said yes. I went noooo, no no. You need to get a plan B tomorrow and he shrugged it off like naaaah it's fine. I said NO it's not fine 😅 it's significantly easier for me to get pregnant again and I haven't started the birth control my OB prescribed me (I picked it up earlier it's a 3 months supply and I lost it they won't refill it till the 3 months is up) but he sensed how serious I was because I wasnt budging on it and told him "No seriously. You need to go out tomorrow and get one. I'll send you the money idc but you need to get one" he said he would, he apologized said he's running on one brain cell and got "lost in it" and didn't think about it because it's been a while. Like... What. I've talked to him numerous times about how it'd be easier to get pregnant again so soon, I've talked to him about other peoples videos where they told their spouse they did it anyways and the women fell pregnant. (I feel I need to add he almost seemed a little sad when I said "I don't want to stress this but seriously" and he finished my sentence and said "Ill go get one tomorrow, I promise")
Am I wrong for being worried and stressed out over this?
Should I just be happy that we finally had a moment of release and connection again after months of nothing.
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Urm.. I do understand why your concerned but it’s not like your pregnant again, go and get the morning after pill and talk to another dr about getting birth control…
I say a little bit of both. Enjoy that you guy's had a moment. Nothing tou can do until tomorrow when you get the pill. So for now, I say try to relax and just enjoy each other
You’re right, but my partner did the same thing, twice, bc he got ‘lost in the moment’ as it had ‘been awhile’ think it’s a men thing lol
Purchase some condoms whilst you’re at it. The pull out method isn’t adequate birth control.
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