He has to be lying right?

Recently got into an argument with my children's father. He said he was talking to his mom about me not cleaning, cooking for him or contributing financially (all false btw) and apparently she told him that I should be doing more. I'm very late stage pregnant so even if I was dropping the ball lately I think I have a right to? Also she is a stay at home mom of 20 plus years now, relied heavily on family members to support her during her pregnancy with him (all talked about with me) so I don't even see how she would shit talk me given her past and current circumstances.
Like he has to be lying about this right? Or can women really be that two faced when it comes to their sons? It makes me so upset because I really trusted her and if she's being weird like this I just feel so betrayed.

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is he even on your side?

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Honestly it sounds like he’s saying it to “convince” you you should be doing more and I definitely wouldn’t take it as gospel without hearing it from the horses mouth. I might be wrong as I don’t know her but as a woman I’d like to think she has your back

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He immediately became angry, got dressed without saying much and told me, “Not even a hoe has ever done that.” As he was putting on his clothes, he also said, “Don’t worry, I have plenty of ways to sort myself out.” I’m not sure whether he meant watching sexual content, finding someone else or simply taking care of himself, but it felt like a threat intended to make me feel guilty.

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