Climbing up the percentile chart

Hey, just wonder if anyone has had any experience with quick weight gain and leaps up the percentile chart before and how they went about feeding with their LO

For context, my LO is almost 7 months old and we began weaning at 5 1/2 months old as she was showing all the signs she was ready for food. Weaning has been a messy but successful transition with her happily taking 3 meals in a day. She has wanted less bottles but with teething sometimes she will have a bottle instead of food as she is looking for comfort.
I've had a health visitor app (on the phone as they couldn't attend the day we had planned) they advised us to just continue how we are going if she's happy with what is offered and I just look for cues she's hungry then she'll be getting what she needs and can manage.
She was last weighed by a health visitor in May where she was on trend of her percentile but I fear since the weaning we have just been climbing as I have weighed her at home the last 2 months and both months she's had a 2lb gain, this month was almost 3lbs. I know once she's more mobile she'll be burning off the rolls and this isn't me thinking she is chunky it's I just want to be good by her and make sure I'm keeping her healthy. I phoned a health visitor on Friday and she seemed concerned there is a big jump in weight and she's now gone from the 50th centile to nearly 91st.

She's always been baby led fed so when it comes to dropping bottle feeds I've been so confused other than around meal times in what to do and I also just want to make sure she's getting everything she needs. Would she need to be on vitamins if her feed is now mainly food

Any advice or help I will be truly grateful for, it will help me ease my anxiety and mum guilt so thank you

A messy weaning pic from our days out for interest

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Her first time at the beach and she was there and strolled off with her before I got chance to. Our first time with her on the swings and she's just...there.
Same as giving her ice cream/foods/sweets whatever, she just gives it to her without asking. Idk if I'm overreacting or I feel like a bit pushed out. She's my daughter and I just wanted to do some firsts with her myself. Not sure if I'm being mean and should just get over it. How would you approach it?

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The vet visits easily cost 1000 pounds. And we can’t really keep paying massive vet bills.

We have a 20 month old, and I’m 8 weeks pregnant. I just don’t have the mental capacity to deal with this. I want the the cat to live several more years, and our 20 month old loves him.
But with him just not eating and with vet bills I just feel like we should put him down.

We had 2 cats and put the previous down a month before our daughter was born, at that point he probably wouldn’t have lasted out the month anyway, and I felt we should have put him down earlier.

But our remaining cat isn’t as bad as our old one I just don’t want to deal with it, and I feel bad!

Am I horrible?

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