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Moms looking for friends

I’m really tired of it being acceptable to treat human beings like tik tok feed

People have no idea how to connect like at all. I’ve been on here for years trying to find moms in my area and it’s been the biggest struggle. People always say anyone without friends is a red flag and this just isn’t true. Most of the time people with no friends don’t have any becsue they’re seen as uninteresting or not valuable enough. We tend to expect people to wow us immediately like a damn short video. If it doesn’t immediately grab your attention you just scroll past it and it only takes a few seconds for everyone to decide it’s boring. You do the same thing to human beings and it’s just gross. I’ve always hated when I try to converse with someone and within seconds their face completely drops becsue I’m not interesting enough to them and they just completely stop listening and just walk away and feel no shame. I’m actually stating to hate people. You can’t even post incognito because them no one will reply because they can’t see if you’re interesting enough to them. No one will ever be good enough until you learn to lower your standards. And I’m not interested in talking online