what would you do?

hi mamas!
Im currently 3 months postpartum. During pregnancy i was always moody and angry so me and my partner were really struggling with each other. He left two weeks postpartum and i had to put him on child support. I found out i was being cheated in while pregnant and after birth. Today we met and he told me that he wants my forgiveness and to go live with his mum and him until
he buys his apartment next year . Im really hurt by him but i still love him and want my family. What should i do

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Do you live alone now? i dont think you should go live with him. you can live apart and work on being a family if thats what you want. and maybe after he’s proven himself extensively then consider living with him if thats what you want still

you could have been the meanest person on the planet while pregnant and it would never justify mistreatment abandonment and cheating. loyalty is the minimum. i know you want to believe he will change but they almost never do. there is a good man out there who would never hurt you like this one did. if you choose to go back mentally prepare that it could happen again and create a safety net for you and your baby financially, hide it and never tell him. a proper couples therapist and that man really has to have an ego death to understand what he did. But you do deserve better girl.

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