Why does divorce feel ok some days
Like it’s the right choice? But crippling others? I hope it gets better :/
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You’re not alone.
Same here.
I totally understand you 😔 some days are amazing and others it look like you made the wrong decision, what help me is to think 🤔 the reason why I choose to Divorce my husband , sometimes is the beat decision is to separate or loose yourself 🤔 finally I choose myself
Hoping it gets better 🩷
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Why does divorce feel ok some days
Like it’s the right choice? But crippling others? I hope it gets better :/
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