Leaving my ex partner
Am I wrong to leave my ex partner who continues to drink and smoke? Also has no job. Also talks to multiple girls?
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So basically he is useless? You'd be wrong for staying with him. Liberate yourself, you'll thrive 10x more without him
You know good and well you are not wrong for leaving that man and we are going to tell you that you should have left sooner. Girl leave, he’s not doing anything for you, stop wasting your time and energy.
Not wrong at all!!! It’s good to have self respect & standards. Good for you! 👏
The best thing you can do is leave and never look back!!!!!
It's good that your starting to question it - your half way there.
If he drinks, smokes, cheats and doesn't work to contribute to the household... What purpose does he hold? NONE
Gone are the days where women sit around hoping and waiting for a man to change. Leave him, focus on yourself, your growth and in time the right person will come your way. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS
No youre not wrong. He is a cheater who is useless. You do not have to stay with a sub par man these days.
Nah girl you know your worth. You deserve better
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Leaving my ex partner
Am I wrong to leave my ex partner who continues to drink and smoke? Also has no job. Also talks to multiple girls?
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Hii, I’m Jess ! I’m 27 & I have 2 beautiful kiddos who are 7 & 5 & expecting a baby boy in the beginning of January💙. I’m a milspouse & my husband is currently stationed on Oahu, Hawaii, so I’m pretty far away from most people sadly, but I would love someone who would want to be my best friend even long distance 🥹
I’m a supportive, outgoing, compassionate person! I love being there for others when people need me! I’m a chatter box when I’m comfortable as well !✨
I know long distance friendship isn’t for everyone, but if you’re open, let me know ! ✨
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