My therapist told me I need friends…

So here I am. Preferably friends I can meet and chat with in person. I’m horrible at small talk and trying to get over a bestie breakup so slightly (mostly) awkward. I live in the southern San Diego area. If you like big talk about your hopes and dreams and fears then I’m your girl.

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Friends ? 💕

Looking for friends near or far 🩷

HII my name is Janai! Im 27 and live in Upstate NY. Im a First time mom to my 11 month old who we call Belly 🩷 Id love to make some new friends! 💕

Do you use ChatGPT/any AI chat program? If so, are you aware of the ethical issues?

I dont want arguing in the comments. Simply curious, are people that use ChatGPT or other AI chat bots actually aware of the ethical issues? Mostly environmental but also the content stealing side.

Looking for a mom bestie to FaceTime!!

Life can be very chaotic, but having someone to talk to for motivation is always the best! Spending my day deep cleaning so trying to stay on task!!

BBF Alberta Calgary

Someone who wants a real connection, the kind they say doesn't exist anymore, zero envy, honesty always, mutual respect, going out, sharing coffee, sleepless nights, long conversations about a bright future, emotional support, and so many other things that can happen along life's journey. If you're there, I'd love to meet you.

Best friend?

I'm looking for someone who enjoys chatting online or using FaceTime. I can do it in person if you are near me. I am a first-time mom with a 5-month-old baby. 🩵 I want to be girly with someone interested in makeup, hobbies, and going out to drink and smoke. 😁

Is this embarrassing? (TMI post)

This is kinda tmi and I feel embarrassed so I just want to see others opinions

Me and my partner just had sex but I was so dry it didn’t work. For context - we are usually quite sexuall active but the past few months sex is 99% of the time just a quickie now from the side in bed and he gets his, rather than having actual sex or making love. Usually he’s very proactive at giving me foreplay etc but lately there’s been none of that, we have had quite a stressful month with a lot to do.

Genuinely I never get aroused anymore or actually feel horny (there’s a few contributing factors). We haven’t done it in like 2 weeks due to my period, and since yesterday I have actually been feeling quite horny purely hormonal due to ovulating but I genuinely wanted to have sex with him but yesterday we got into a fight and haven’t spoken to eachother/he’s stayed away from me etc.

I was almost asleep tonight and out of nowhere he comes to me and initiates sex purely by taking my underwear off and pushing inside of me. Therefore we had not been in good terms so I have been feeling down the last 2 days, no prior warning or foreplay and he just pushes inside which does not feel nice to me as it’s quite painful without being warmed up. There was no intimacy as we were not facing eachother, he didn’t try to kiss me or make it personal it was more just mechanical and just thrusting.

I ended up completely drying up as i obviously was not aroused and the friction became sore. After a while (he was struggling to finish as I was so dry) he then eventually gave up, stood up and walked away and has gone to bed to sleep. Hasn’t said a word to me.

I’m lying here feeling very embarrassed at myself like my body doesn’t work and just goes dry all the time, I’ve got an intense headache now and just feel rubbish which doesn’t help as sex is something I struggle with due to insecurities. I know I have been feeling aroused in general and was really looking forward to when we have sex, but this just doesn’t work for me and I feel embarrassed now