Something I’ve always wondered about my sex life…”
Ladies, I’m curious to know if anyone else has experienced this because I’ve wondered about it for a long time.
I’ve never really been able to orgasm during sex with men, including with my current partner. I enjoy sex and intimacy, but if I actually want to reach orgasm, I usually have to masturbate.
The only time I’ve experienced something completely different was when I was intimate with a woman. It was honestly one of the most intense and amazing sexual experiences I’ve ever had, and I still remember how different it felt.
It sometimes makes me wonder what that means about me, my body, or my sexuality. Is it actually quite common for women not to orgasm from sex with a male partner but to be able to through masturbation or different types of intimacy?
Please be kind — I’m genuinely curious and would love to hear other women’s experiences. ❤️
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I think it makes sense that you can achieve more pleasure with another woman because women understand the female anatomy better. They have a better understanding in what works and what doesnt. Men can learn but only if taught and they wont change their approach if they think its working. I guess it just takes the right male partner. 😏
I’d say the majority of women can’t orgasm through penetration alone. Just takes time to find what works for you. But if you enjoy it with women that’s great too 😏
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