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Moms in their 30’s

Birth options for baby number 2

I had a baby in January last year, and had an elective cesarean (as he was measuring big and they didnt want me to go too far past my due date, and I decline induction as my body wasnt showing any signs of being ready for labour). My experience was very calm and my recovery was very good so it was really positive.

Fast forward to now, and Im pregnant with my second, due in November, when my eldest will be 22 months. My midwife is starting to talk to me about birth preferences. She said I can have either a cesarean again or vaginal delivery. There are currently no other factors at play to mean medically Id be better off with one or the other, so assuming everything continues to progress as it has so far, its up to me.

What was everyone's experience second time round? Im so torn on what to go for. Having another elective is appealing having a little one at home as it means I can have some control over the date a childcare.. but then Im also worried about having another cesarean and not being able to do as much with my eldest in the earlier days whilst Im recovering, and I'm conscious of trying to make the transition for him welcoming his new sister as smooth as I can.

Im very lucky to have a very supportive and handson husband who will be having 5-6 weeks off work, and plenty of family near by to help where needed.

What would you choose and why?