Breakup

The hardest part for me was when my daughter would ask if it was her fault. Or if daddy didn't want her any more. The only thing I can say is he as honest as you can be ( age appropriate) and just hug them love them very with them if needed.

I have just been through that.. I totally understand all the feelings and the shock you're probaby gping throught right now. In my case, I just took it day by day. I didn't give the kids any speech or explain anything other than "papa is not gping to be home tonight". If they ask why, you tell them something simple, that they can understand, like "sometimes we need some space, so that we can be a better mommy and daddy".

Don't need to explain them anything more right now. Don't need to explain anyone else anything, really. You're currently taking somw time apart right now. You don't know what's going to look in a week or a month.
I literally just texted who I wanted to know that we were currently separated and that whenever I was going to be ready to talk about it I would.

I know it feels almost like a death right now. Like your life just blew up. But I'm 12 weeks ahead of you and I promise you, not only you're going to be happy again, but you will THRIVE.

Also, please follow Jen Hamilton. She and her husband just split more or less around the same time I did. Her videos helped me so much!