Making decisions behind my husband
So we had our baby in November and bc I had gain so much weight my husband said wait till I lose weight to start birth control but since then i feel his purposely trying to get me pregnant and I just don’t want to argue so I went to my doctor and had them prescribe me birth control pills without telling him
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Girl this is your body that has to go through pregnancy. Some of these men will try to trap you with multiple children. Some don't want you to get back to feeling like yourself and losing weight. Don't feel bad about getting on bc. Only have another baby of YOU want one and he's a capable and helpful husband and father.
Do you have a trusted friend or family member that knows the two of you that you could talk to about this? With all due respect, this is not the kind of thing for which one should rely on strangers for advice.
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Leaving two year old to go away
My husband and I (my daughters dad) got married a few weeks ago. We’ve booked a honeymoon next month. We’re only going away for 4 nights because I didn’t want to leave our daughter.
She’s 2yo (+ 3 months) and she will be staying with my parents who are INCREDIBLE, very hands-on with her. She is with them two days a week while I work so she sees them a lot & adores them, and they her. I trust them fully. I just feel so guilty.
I’ve happily revolved my life around her. I work in a school, 9am - 3pm, 3 days a week and have school holidays. So I spend a lot of time with her
I’ve had two mums tell me they could never leave their child like this
Am I doing the wrong thing?
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Has anyone actually made friends on here?
Has anyone actually made a friend on here? I've been on here 8 months and nothing. I've had the same convos where I'm always asking questions? And theres nothing back. I feel like I'm on a dating site 🤣
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Rant !
Tell me why some humans out there can be so vial!
I just received a message of a old high school friend I was there when no one else would till he started hating on me too (he’s gay not jealous) and messages me out of no where saying “why is you baby so ugly could you not find a better sperm provider”
What the hell goes through peoples minds to hate on a baby fgs !
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Role play
I am wanting to try some role play in the bedroom. Can someone give me some ideas to spice up my sex life.
We have a good sex life but want to add a bit of spice to it .
We done the stranger one the other night were we had just met and was such a turn on
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Women keep saying they want a village ,but I don’t think people understand that village lifestyle.
You can’t be lazy ,you can’t just keep saying no whenever you don’t feel like it .
Village life,will push you to open your doors wider ,literally and figuratively.
Meaning more people have access to you and your children,thus judgement.yes you will constantly be judged for just whatever.This is because this lifestyle is usually harmonious.But you will also live a little bit happier if you know how to live with people.
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Texting bestie
Hiiii
My husband is on the other side of the country for a few weeks & I’m home alone with our newborn. I recently moved hours away from all of my friends and family so outside of my little girl I’m pretty much alone. I’d love some people to talk to while I navigate this transition! Bonus points if you also have a LO that keeps you up all night 😅
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