Leaving two year old to go away
My husband and I (my daughters dad) got married a few weeks ago. We’ve booked a honeymoon next month. We’re only going away for 4 nights because I didn’t want to leave our daughter.
She’s 2yo (+ 3 months) and she will be staying with my parents who are INCREDIBLE, very hands-on with her. She is with them two days a week while I work so she sees them a lot & adores them, and they her. I trust them fully. I just feel so guilty.
I’ve happily revolved my life around her. I work in a school, 9am - 3pm, 3 days a week and have school holidays. So I spend a lot of time with her
I’ve had two mums tell me they could never leave their child like this
Am I doing the wrong thing?
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No, you’re doing the right thing. Super important for you and your husband to have like that moment in the sunshine! Enjoy your life 🎉🌈✨❤️
Absolutely not doing the wrong thing. Leaving your child with people that love her and look after her so well for a couple days. Spoiling her rotten whilst you get to celebrate a huge milestone in your life with the love of your life. There’s no problem here, enjoy your time and congratulations 🥰
I’m going away for 3 nights next month. I’m a solo parent to my daughter and she’s staying with my mam she adores her. I’m genuinely excited! Enjoy the time off you deserve it
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Leaving two year old to go away
My husband and I (my daughters dad) got married a few weeks ago. We’ve booked a honeymoon next month. We’re only going away for 4 nights because I didn’t want to leave our daughter.
She’s 2yo (+ 3 months) and she will be staying with my parents who are INCREDIBLE, very hands-on with her. She is with them two days a week while I work so she sees them a lot & adores them, and they her. I trust them fully. I just feel so guilty.
I’ve happily revolved my life around her. I work in a school, 9am - 3pm, 3 days a week and have school holidays. So I spend a lot of time with her
I’ve had two mums tell me they could never leave their child like this
Am I doing the wrong thing?
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