Men, ugh

He’s either really really insecure and just paranoid that you will and he’ll lose you, (abandonment trauma) or, he’s doing that shit himself and he’s projecting it onto you, blaming you to take the guilt off himself. It’s only those 2 options. Men don’t accuse an innocent faithful partner of cheating unless they are really truly insecure or cheating themselves (if you never have before)

He is accusing you of sleeping with other men.. that’s a big red flag he’s cheating… and that definitely mess up your ph balance… but seriously projection is something to look out for cuz it’s telling…

Okay why does this sound exactly like me I feel exact same way, it’s like really making 3 course meals a day. It’s so exhausting like if it were up to me I would just survive on the coffee. lol 😆

Him: Insecure and boring as feck attitude. A grown woman does not need to be bothering themselves with this immature crap. I left this at 28, 30yo found my dream man. Get this crap out your life. If you’re happy alone, like I am - a partner should only be a bonus to your life.

My husband was doing this to me, and he was talking to other women, i don't think it was sexual etc but still its just as bad. I dont think they realise us women are more invested in them then they are us until this shit then its just a turn off and disrespectful.