How do you ever get out of the cycle? If you work and slowly save over years to maybe one day break the cycle and purchase your own property but then as soon as you hit £6k in saving your benefits decrease then stop completely at £16k. You’ll never be able to own anything if you’re having to pay a privately rented accomodation by yourself with no help but if you recieve help you’ll have to recieve it forever cause you’ll never be able to save to buy? So confused
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It’s crazy isn’t it! Work hard, saving as much as humanly possible, paying taxes too and you’re penalised for it. No advice but I understand your frustration!

Does it count as savings if you put them in a help to buy ISA or in gov bonds?
Any money in your name is considered savings
Basically they’ll make sure you never get out the cycle then complain everyone’s on benefits so strange

It’s really hard especially if you are private renting as it’s so expensive you likely need the extra support from UC. I bought a shared ownership house so that is an option as you don’t need as large deposit and you still get help with your rent if you are low income. Maybe look into this?
I would have but I’m not currently working so although I have a large deposit I can’t do much without work (I have a small baby)

You literally cannot save on uc because the second you have even £1 in a savings account they start cutting what they give you and then you can’t afford your bills. I feel so stuck
So my partner went back to work on Monday after having 3 weeks off. Monday itself wasnt too bad because I had made plans to see a friend, but yesterday I really struggled because we didnt see anyone. I have friends that I can message but its not really the same, and I have plans later in the week that im looking forward to but on the days where its just me and my two daughters(3 weeks & 9), I feel so alone. And it is only day 3 today so I know it'll get better but when my oldest (9) goes back to school next week I feel like its gonna be worse cos I will be on my own. Will it get better or will I just get used to it?

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This is me and my little hiker 🥾🤎
We love hiking and we’re looking for some new places to explore in the UK!
Any other hiking mums on here with little hiking buddies? Where have you been that you’d really recommend with little ones? We’d love some ideas for our next adventure 🥰✨

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Looking for a bestie I really get super lonely I’m full time mom/wife. I’m 32 I have children different age groups 15,9, 2, and 1. I just love someone talk to daily even if you live far, I’m very outgoing mom.

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How do you ever get out of the cycle? If you work and slowly save over years to maybe one day break the cycle and purchase your own property but then as soon as you hit £6k in saving your benefits decrease then stop completely at £16k. You’ll never be able to own anything if you’re having to pay a privately rented accomodation by yourself with no help but if you recieve help you’ll have to recieve it forever cause you’ll never be able to save to buy? So confused
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I think my husband has more faith in other men than I do. He keeps making comments on me sleeping with other men or chatting them up online. Who tf told him that other men were that interesting? I would sooner go home and play with my rose than I would entertain another man. Especially after the BS I've been through with hubs. I'm not one of those the grass is greener on the other side type of woman. I'm the type of person that enjoys my own company and would sooner choose to be alone than entertain another man. Men don't do shit but cause headaches and mess up your PH balance. Fuck them all tbh! He's lucky I'm still with him if I'm being completely honest. But let me just sip on this coffee.
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If you ask your partner about his day or if they have had a good day do they ask you back?
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